Together Apart

You built the community.
Why not actually take them somewhere?

European group travel without turning yourself into everyone's unpaid travel agent.

2 bases / 10 days / independent during the day / together when it makes sense

See how it works
The real problem

Getting people excited about a trip is easy.
Getting the trip to actually happen is not.


You already have the people. What you don't need is another job managing hotels, trains, luggage, schedules and everyone's increasingly specific opinions.

A community trip sounds simple until somebody has to figure out where everyone should stay, how they should get around, how long to stay in each place, which day trips make sense, and how to keep the whole thing from becoming a group tour.

01 You choose the destination

Italy, Austria, Scotland, somewhere you've been dreaming about for years. The destination is yours to choose.

02 I help make it work

I help turn that destination into a realistic group trip using a structure built for independent travel.

03 Your group gets room

Everyone can spend the day differently without turning the trip into a dozen separate vacations.

04 You don't become the travel department

The trip has enough structure to work without requiring you to organize every waking minute of it.

The Together Apart model

Group travel without the group tour.


The structure does the heavy lifting. The people get to enjoy the trip.

The basic idea is simple: stay long enough in each place to settle in, use the rail network instead of constantly relocating, and build in enough freedom that people don't have to spend every hour together.

Some people explore all day. Some take a day trip. Someone sleeps until noon. Someone finds the best café in town and adopts it.

Then you meet back up for dinner, drinks, a shared experience, or whatever actually makes sense to do together.

How the trip works

A simple structure.
A lot more freedom.


2 bases

Stay long enough to actually enjoy each place instead of checking in, checking out and repeating the process every other day.

10 days

Enough time to make the trip feel worthwhile without requiring everyone to disappear for a month.

Rail first

Central locations, sensible train connections and no rental-car gymnastics unless there is a very good reason for them.

Independent during the day

Go together, split up, sleep late, shop, hike, visit a museum, find a market, or do absolutely nothing. Nobody needs permission.

Together when it makes sense

Dinner, drinks, a beautiful train ride, a memorable experience. The parts of the trip that are actually better shared.

Built for community leaders

You already know how to bring people together.


Now you want to give them somewhere to go.

Together Apart is for women who run online communities, memberships, courses, groups and audiences and want to turn that connection into a real-world experience.

You don't need to become a tour operator. You don't need to create a 40-page custom itinerary for every person who says they're interested.

You choose the destination. Together Apart gives you a practical way to build the trip around it.

And yes, there will still be someone who asks whether the hotel has a hair dryer.

Together Apart Your community already exists.
Your trip doesn't have to stay in the group chat.
Let's get them there.
Choose the destination. Build around two bases. Give everyone room to travel their own way.
Plan a trip for my community See a sample trip

Ready to plan your own trip?

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Planning a trip with your people?

Tell me what you're thinking about and I'll tell you whether Together Apart might work for your group.

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